Yes, Teenage Girls Are Victims of Pedophiles, Assholes
Let’s be real fucking clear. Teenagers are victims of pedophiles, they are the victims of pedophiles all the time, teenagers do not stop being teenagers when they hit some arbitrary age of consent created by a legal system that hates and itself rapes them, and it is NEVER okay for someone almost 50 — like Leonardo DiCaprio — to date teenagers.
Even as these men serially abuse young women in the public eye, teenager after teenager after teenager — people insist that there is nothing predatory about the relationship. For some fucking reason they always find a contorted logic to explain why its okay. And they always have to COME UP with a reason it isn’t predatory, because it so clearly is, that it requires a JUSTIFICATION in order to prove that this thing, which is so obviously on its face pedophilia, is in fact, totally fine and in fact, the girl is benefitting from it.
Are you fucking kidding me? Didn’t Epstein just happen? Didn’t we just go through an entire GLOBAL conversation about teen girls in PARTICULAR being abused by pedophiles? Because some of those girls were under age of consent and some were over, but it doesn’t fucking matter, because they were all pedophile victims being raped and trafficked by a pedophile.
And here we have celebrities like Leonardo DiCaprio and Scott Disick and Jake Gyllenhall serially dating young girls and this is considered totally fine. I wrote in a very long analysis about how pedophilia functions in society, that pedophilia is often hidden by the “gold digger” stereotype; the concern often goes to the perpetrator, that the old man is being “used” for money.
First of all, this idea that every woman in any kind of relationship, including an abusive one, with a rich or famous man, is getting literally anything from them, is fucking absurd. Rich men love to find ways to deny girls and women money and often go to great lengths to control any access to money and possessions and gifts; almost never do they leave the girl with a nest egg for her future.
They are ABUSERS they are PEDOPHILES they are NOT in this to make the lives of their victims better, why would people assume that pedophiles — violent, serial rapists — are giving these girls money? And if they are, while money can certainly be part of a justice process, it definitely does not make up for being sexually abused, abuse that can be fatal to girls — suicide, addiction. And it doesn’t justify it. And it certainly doesn’t make it OK.
Why in the FUCK do we subject the girl in every public PEDOPHILE ATTACK (because that is exactly what this is), to this bizarre circus desperate to justify it? About the most recent Leonardo DiCaprio thing, I’ve seen the argument (from people I thought had good heads!!) that this girl is essentially a sex worker or could be a sex worker or a sugar baby and therefore its all fine and she’s probably just happy she found a “whale”. Uhhhh??? None of that bullshit makes this somehow “not” pedophilia, and also why are you making assumptions about if a VICTIM of sexual violence is or is not a sex worker? Why are you even TALKING, as grown adults, about this CHILD?
Stop playing fucking dumb. We all know that teenage girls SPECIFICALLY, and that includes 16 and 17 and 18 and 19 year olds and college students, TEENAGERS, TEENAGERS, TEENAGERS, are preyed on by pedophiles all the time. And yet each and every case must be held up for inspection as if this was some kind of public judiciary investigation. FUCK OFF.
Age gap abuses often continue into girls’ early 20s, or relationships that started earlier are often extended in those ages, leaving people easy and bullshit excuses to let pedophiles go. Because they are still young and inexperienced, not even out of school, barely out of THEIR PARENTS HOUSE, these girls have NO experience being adults and are NOT adults. I think we need to ask ourselves especially as older adults why we continually feel the need to insist that teenager girls are NOT in fact being preyed on, even as we are talking about TEENAGERS and men who are in their fucking 40s and 50s. Why we feel the need to interrogate the VICTIM and not the PERPETRATOR?
Stop fucking around. Old ass men abuse teenage girls and, yes, girls in college or college-aged (WHO ARE STILL TEENAGERS AND FRESH OUT OF THEIR PARENTS HOUSE, YET ARE SEEN AS INCAPABLE OF BEING ABUSED BY OLD ASS MEN). All of the time this happens. We KNOW this happens because old ass men TELL and SHOW us all of the time that they are abusing teens. Because it has happened to US. Because it has happened to people we KNOW.
It’s almost a massive cultural war that we are continually fighting in slow motion: can teenagers even be victims of pedophiles?
Yes, you dumb fucks.
This cultural attitude is so dangerous for pedophile victims. Because of these ideas, many teenage girls don’t understand how much danger they are in from pedophiles and they think “relationships” with pedophiles are normal and fine because they are simply “age gap” relationships. They don’t recognize these men as predators and they don’t understand the lifelong damage that results from them. Teenage victims also often feel very confused about if they were violated, may blame themselves, won’t seek help or treatment, and aren’t believed about what they’ve gone through. This circus we are doing, the perpetual circus with a never-ending public parade of pedophiles and their victims, and the tired pedophilia-apologist debates we have EVERY TIME, puts all teen girls at even MORE risk of abuse.
Stop fucking lying. Teenagers are sexually abused all the time by pedophiles and we all fucking know it. Shut the fuck up.